Tuesday, January 11, 2011

FINAL: I'm Home :]

So, I'll keep it short, but I feel like I should post something about the Faith team being there and coming home.

So here's the SHORTEST possible version.

10 hour car ride to Delhi
3 hours standing at airport waiting for team
9 hour train ride
Arrived in Beawar and for the next like 5 days just hit the work hard (and the play harder)
Held the Annual Function (Veer's school's big performance) and the Faith team preformed and did a phenomenal job
Jan 5... said goodbye... I balled, balled, balled. So many touching stories there I'd write a novel on here so I'll spare you
Rampora School, distributed candy and school supplies
Chicken coup... uh.. chicken coup...
Road some camels, slept in the freezing desert
Chilled at the Palace, that was nice
Went to the orphanage in Delhi, boy with skinny jeans was my immediate favorite
Got on the first plane
Got a fever
Got on the second plane
Got home.
The end.

So, there's your version of the past two-ish weeks. I know it's not very detailed but, oh, well.

I would love to just say that God taught me so much and I GREW in Him remarkable amounts while I was there. I'm changed forever. Now, off to college (cross those fingers).

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Second from Last Post

Hey guys!

Sooo, super busy as of late thanks to my American counterparts needing help with everything. I have no time to check facebook or blog.... I will post a blog (the last one) upon my arrival in the USA! For updates you can check the team's facebook group because I will be with them for the rest of the time. Here's the link:

Get home on January 9!!! Wooohoo!

-Ethan

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas!

Hello! Hello!
So, it's the day after Christmas and I know many of you would like to know what exactly my Christmas looked like. Well, I'll tell you!

About two weeks back I got a package from my family with presents and letters for me that just made my month... even more importantly, it had the presents I requested for the boys! :]
They included socks, candy, and an individual present specifically picked out for each boy.

So, the days went by after that, pretty standard, until the 23rd. I had already given them the socks but had some left over and seeing that I have to show indifference and couldn't just give out the remaining pairs leaving some with less than others, I came up with a grand idea. Stockings! I decorated the left over socks and put a Reese's cup, a bracelet (I brought with me), and a letter I wrote for each of them. They thought the tradition was odd... I mean, who wouldn't have? I was hanging decorated socks on their wall with candy in them... I even think it's odd. But they didn't mind as they reached in and found their little treasures. Good times.

The next day, Christmas Eve, was full of fun. Just a good day all around. But the entire day was blotted out by the gift giving at the end of the day. Typically, the boys just get gifts from Blessy and Veer, which is one new pair of clothes. But they each had two presents to open this year [: Stuffed animals, puzzle books, a football, aviators, and joy filled the room! All kinds of gifts! Then I surprised Blessy and Veer with a little cross I had brought with me to give them. But, they too surprised me with a present. They gave me this beautiful picture frame with an even more beautiful picture inside it with me, Veer, and the boys. One of my favorite gifts of all time! BUT, the presents weren't over for the boys!

Christmas Day... They boys were all in their brand new clothes they had picked out. We had a church service. Then we did impersonations of each other... my impersonation of Veer had the boys hootin' and hollerin'! Then Wilson (a very tall friend of ours who was visiting for Christmas) gave all the boys their THIRD gift! More NEW clothes (which is nice cause many/most of their clothes are used***)! After that countless of dear friends and family came to our school to celebrate with us. We sang, danced, ate massive amounts of food, and set off fireworks!! That was a blast. Did you like that unintended pun? Cause I didn't. Anywho, it was a ton of fun! Loved talking to Luvson (pronounced Louewvson... in other words, it's harder to say than it appears) who is kinda the only real friend I have... Not counting my new family, of course! So Christmas was good. The boys definitely loved it. I'm very happy for them.

Anyway, the day after tomorrow (the 27th) Veer, Jeremiah, and I are headed to Delhi to picked up the Faith team at the airport. We'll get back to Beawar on the 29th. There's probably only gonna be one more blog before I am home. Yup, bittersweet. Tears are in the near future.

Love you all, can't wait to see you guys in person!

Merry Christmas (yeah, I know it's not Christmas anymore but get over it)

***At the beginning of November the boys were all receiving their winter clothes from Veer and Blessy. Jeremiah asked for a Faith (my high school) shirt. He was going crazy over wanting this used shirt (a girl's shirt keep in mind) that most of the students at Faith, myself included, dislike/don't care about our school shirts, which is why someone donated the Faith shirt to Veer in the first place haha. One man's trash, is another 9 yr old boy's treasure! Makes me thankful for my clothes for sure!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Just Givin' Some Thanks

Hey yall, sorry for the long period with no updates (again). Things have been super busy lately.

First off, the half yearly exams are going on right now, so I've been grading a TON of papers. Fun times. All the boys are getting great grades on all my exams, so that's good!

In other news, this is the season of weddings. Due to some Hindu belief of god's sleeping and waking up, they all have their marriages during a period of one month. SO, Veer and I have attending about 7 or 8 marriage parties in the past month. Lost of weird traditions, like marching through the streets dancing all the way to the bride's house while the groom rides a horse and holds a sword. They have to stay in their homes for a period of time before the wedding itself. The receptions are basically tons of food with an outdoor stage with two thrones on it where the newlyweds sit. I have pictures of that which will be posted on my return. They wear the most ridiculous (to US standards) outfits, consisting of extremely shiny and sparkly clothes and cheap looking plastic decorations in their turbans. Instead of exchanging rings, they exchange leis (did I spell that right? you know, the flower necklaces lol). Anywho, it's all really insteresting.

Construction is going well. The roof on the second floor of the school and church are both finished and the massive stage is currently being constructed. Kids who have been out here won't even recognize it anymore, it's totally different.

It's been raining a lot lately, which has made it fairly cold, even for me (the Indians have a different definition of "cold" than we do, a perfect day for us = three layers of clothes haha). But the rain has been causing some problems. Countless buses, tractors, rickshaws and cars have gotten stuck in the mud. That plus the battery in Veer's car dying on us a lot lately equals Ethan pushing a lot of cars, some to get unstuck, some to get to start.

Thanksgiving YO. Well, my thanksgiving was rather pleasant. For breakfast, I took all the poptarts my mother sent me, cut them up, and shared them with the boys. They loved 'em! After school, Veer and I went to Ajmer to visit a pastor and had some chicken nuggets and chicken burgers for lunch, that was homely. Thanksgiving night, we doubled up two celebrations: Thanksgiving and John's (the second oldest orphan) 15th birthday. We had cake, biscuits, a chocolate treat that just seemed like cereal to me, these cream filled things, and more! It was very pleasant. We also spent some time in prayer and worship, giving thanks to the Most High, for all the blessings He has given us. Missed throwing the pigskin with my brother though :[

That's really all that's been going on: exams, weddings, and life.
Still constantly struggling with the boys to steal their work. Earlier this week I was helping John, Samuel, and Shivam clean the buses. They demanded I stopped and "supervised". I told them, as their supervisor, to let me show them how it's done haha. They still don't really get that I am here to serve... I try to explain, but they just don't understand why an American would come to India to do work for some orphans... The battle wages on.

Miss you all, a little over month left here in the land of festivals, then it's back to the grand ol' US of A. Bittersweet.

Much love!
-E

"I, I am he who blots out your transgressions for my own sake, and I will not remember your sins." -my Father
Isaiah 43:25

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Long Over Due

Hey guys.

Let me start off by saying I'm sorry it's taken me so long to get an update posted. I've been very busy.

Happy Birthday Blessy! Yes, today is her birthday and we are having a celebration tonight. Yahoo!

Anywho, first off things are going GREAT here. I'm still growing like crazy! And my relationships with the boys are really starting to flourish. It's a daily battle to get to serve them. Literally. I have to fight them for the broom or mop. I have to force them to let me wash their clothes. I have to argue over letting me help make their dinner. Yes, they partially don't wanna let me work cause they think Veer will beat them for being lazy, but Veer knows how I am. However, sometimes they don't want me to work because they honestly want me to not have to. They still don't get that I WANT to serve them. The daily battle goes on.

Jeremiah is doing a lot better if you were wondering. The burns are completely healed on his knee and his foot is doing a LOT better. He is running and playing as if nothing happened. Praise God!

So two Fridays ago we (me and the orphans) had the first "Fasting Prayer Friday". Veer was busy going to pick up his mother (who know lives with us), so he told me to lead it. So I spoke for about 20 minutes on prayer, fasting, and worship. Then we song a few songs and prayed for about 30 minutes. Then we layed hands on Sunil (the youngest) and prayed for him. The Sohan, then Ajay, and so forth going up in age. The Holy Spirit's presence was so heavy and thick in that room. Even the Hindu night-watchman asked to be prayed over...(Sidenote: I'm regularly praying that he will dedicate his life to Christ... I ask you pray for that too. His name is Gomji, if I spelled that right). At the end I tried to just close us in prayer and conclude the meeting. They knew exactly what I was doing and stopped me, pulled me to the middle of the huddle, and prayed over me. As I knelt and had loud prayers poured over me, I teared up. It was such a blessing. Truly, I tell you, that of all the pastors, friends, family, teachors, and mentors who have prayed over me... this was the most touching to me. Then we concluded the prayer meeting. Then 10 of the boys and Samuel the cook all volunteered to fast. Touching. The only ones who didn't were the 4 youngest who weren't allowed to. So everyone who could, did. I was proud of them, then humbled by them. I began to realize that these NINE year olds were asking to fast. When I was nine I don't think I even knew what fasting was. They will grow to be great men of God.

I received a package from my family about two weeks ago. Such a blessing. Candies and snacks, a FRISBEE, some CD's, a shirt, and some hilarious boxers with mosquitoes on them (speaking of, I'm being eaten alive right now... seriously, I've killed 5 mosquitoes since I started writing this blog and they just keep coming). They package wasn't just a blessing to me but to the boys as well. I immediately went and shared the gum with them all. The other night, I gave them all the Oreo's, which they loved! It was hard for me to not just eat them all... and I feel GUILTY for not sharing the Reeses Pieces... I just love that peanut butter, chocolate-coated candy. Point is, it truly is better to give than it is to receive. Trust me.

I had a straight razor shave the other day at a barber shop. Wow. My face hasn't been that smooth since I was a baby. Afterwards, I got an Indian face massage (no, not a head massage as my fellow Indian travelers have received) which was pretty awesome.

Diwali! Now is Diwali season, the largest Hindu festival. There are lights everywhere and fireworks going off all the time. We went ahead and bought some firecrackers and had a blast setting them off with all the orphans. I'll post videos of it when I get home.

Okay, there's literally 6 other things on my "BLOG" list on my iphone BUT I am way to fed up with these mosquitoes to type about them. So I'll conclude.

I love you all and miss you all very much! Cannot wait to be back in the grand ol' US of A!

Alvida!

"But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen." 2 Peter 3:18

Friday, October 8, 2010

T.I.I.

"T.I.I." stands for "This Is India"
This has been my catchphrase lately... I feel like you'll get the meaning

I've grown more familiar with the wildlife here and I truly do feel like I am on the discovery chanel. Cockroaches literally the length of my index finger. Those three-horned dung beetles you see on T.V. all the time. Grasshoppers that have blue and yellow stripes (Mom, you would have been FREAKING out). Water buffalo (I hope you think of the Veggietales song when you hear that, cause I definitely do). We caught a random turtle and now it's our pet, though we disagree on the name: some call him "ToTo", others agree with me that "Leo" (after Leonardo, my favorit Ninja Turtle) is the better pick. Lizards. Thousands of flies. Pigs. Cows. Goats. Chickens. Dogs and puppies. I gaurantee there will be more. Heck, the FIRST day I got here I walked up to Heera and he pulled a bird out from behind his back that he had caught... handed it to me, and was the first time I held a bird. It definitely attacked me haha. But seriously, the cockroaches... I hear all the time how big they are in some places... those AREN'T exaggerations.

but, hey... T.I.I.

So, I forgot to blog about this in my last blog. The science fair we went to last week. One day, Veer told me to go hop on the bus with the 7th, 8th, 9th, and 10th graders. So I did. Our destination was a state level science competition. It was rather interesting. I had a lot of the "security" (who looked like boyscouts) telling me to do things. I just politely responded "Nahee Hindi (No Hindi)" and then went my way. One persistant boyscout grabbed me by the arm as I turned around and pulled me to the side. This kinda made me mad. I kept it cool though. When, he spoke some harsh words to me, I kindly (okay, maybe I said it more like he was partially deaf or mentally challanged) "NAHEE HINDI". Puzzled, he responded, "Nahee Hindi?"And I replied, "Haaaa" (in a "thank you captian obvious" tone of voice). Then one of the teachers from EMS came up and started yelling at him. I wasn't bother by security for the rest of the day haha.

But, hey... T.I.I.

However, there was one persistant student at the fair from another school. I think he has seen one too many American movies, cause he spoke fairly good English, but seemed to drop the F bomb every sentence. For example he would say "these are my ****ing friends and they dont speak ****ing English." He was nice, and spoke good English, I just don't think he knew exactly what the word meant.

but, hey... T.I.I.

Two days ago Veer and myself (and three of the orphans) were headed to a prayer meeting. On the way, Veer got a call from Blessy saying Jeremiah got burned, badly, but more on that later. Veer dropped us off and shouted, "Ethan, take prayer!" as the car peeled out. Great... See at these prayer meetings someone is suppose to share a message and it's usually Veer. Well, now I had to, but I had nothing prepared. So while they were singing their two worship songs I was frantically searching through my Bible to find a message. Then the time came for me to speak. I told Sagar who knows some English to read the verses in his Hindi Bible. After, I started speaking the short message I had put together. It didn't take long for me to realize none of them even understood what I was saying (and I was using the simplest English I knew). So, I concluded and said "Let's pray" and started to list off everything we should pray for (as was the job of whoever was leading), but again they didn't understand me or the multiple things I named. In fact, there was a large response from everyone when the word "Jeremiah" was said. They all repeated, "Ha, Jeremiah, ha, ha." (Ha means yes, no they weren't laughing). Then I said "Okay, let's all prayer together" but again, they didn't understand. Typically we would all get on our knees and pray outloud together, and it would be rather powerful. However, only two of the orphans understood me and no one else, and those two boys didn't translate. So, It was me, Sagar, and Shivam praying but as they realized no one else was praying their prayers grew to a whisper, which means I was the only one praying now... Not a problem, right? Well, the group gathers to PRAY as a GROUP, so ya... it kinda was. Then I said Amen and that was it. Veer talked to one of the men who was there later that night. That man said prayer went like this, "we sang, he spoke, and then we prayed for only Jeremiah." Success.

but, hey... T.I.I.

If you don't wanna hear nasty details of Jeremiah's burn, skip this paragraph.
Now for Veer's part of the story, he sped home and took Jeremiah to the surgeon and had him bandaged and drugged by the time I got back from prayer. Apparently, he was "dancing" and knocked over a pot of boiling water... burning his knee and foot. Suresh tried to wipe of the hot water with a towel... he wiped off layers of skin instead. That's not the story I wanna tell. My story is about yesterday (the day after the burn). He had to go back to the surgeon to have his bandages changed. I went with Veer and Jeremiah. We went inside. Not the operating room a surgeon should be in by US standards. Not the surgeon you would picture either (this one was wearing short shorts for one little example). So the surgeon laid down newspaper (for sanitary purposes... yeah, I know... newspaper). Jeremiah laid down. The next part is hard to describe. As the doctor began removing bandages Jeremiah started screaming, crying, and kicking in pain. I was now given the task of holding down his legs. (Sidenote: you guys know that one scene that's in 80% of war movies, where theres a soldier who has no medical training that's in the wrong place at the wrong time. The medic tells him to hold the guys hand, or put pressure on the wound... all the while, having to watch the surgeon did out a peace of shrapnel or a bullet or amputate a guy's leg. I can think of a great one in Band of Brothers. Well, though it obviously wasn't THAT bad... I felt like that soldier during this next part.) So where was I? Ah, I was holding down Jeremiah's legs and the doctor got to the gause (gauze? forgive me... idk how to spell that). The gauze was stuck to the burn, yes, stuck. The peeling off of the gauze was hard to watch, but it got harder. After unwrapping the knee and foot (and much resistance from Jeremiah), it was time to apply the medicine. The doctor poured some liquid on the burn that seemed to bubble and fizz and then he poured something that looked like very thin blood on them. Jeremiah again, began to kick and scream in pain. The burn itself was deep and fleshy. Veer said it was 60% worse the day before. So, now comes the really hard part for me to think about: the dead skin. There were two boils on his foot that the surgeon punctured to let the fluids out. The the extensive amount of wrinkled, dead skin on Jeremiah's foot at the be, literally, PEELED off and cut away with scissors. Though I was awful for me, Jeremiah didn't feel a thing (thankfully). Have you ever seen someone peel layers of skin off of a person, to reveal the pink flesh that was hidden underneath? No? I wouldn't recommend it. I'm kinda sick talking about it so we'll move on. Then the doctor bandaged him up, gave him two injections in the butt (more resistance from Jeremiah), and then we went out way.

But, hey... T.I.I. right?

Oh, and if you are wondering Jeremiah is fine. Yesterday morning he waltzed (yeah, like walked on his burned foot) right into the office and asked me to help with his bandages. He did all of this with a smile on his face. We do have to go to the surgeon again tonight, and then again tomorrow but after that he doesn't have to go back for another 10 or 12 days, so that's good! He's not in pain, only when the surgeon is doing stuff (ironically). So don't worry about him.

So, that's all that I have for ya today... keep Jeremiah in your prayers for swift and painless healing, and Tia cause she is still having diffuculties talking and moving...

Love and miss you guys!

-Ethan

T.I.I.